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Tips For Learning The Skill Of Small Talk -The Way To Connect With Others

Life’s  upheavals  bring change which may necessitate  finding a new set of friends.  One can have just gotten through a divorce or relocated for a job. Small talk is the way to establishing connections with others.  You may feel like a nine-year old kid again on the first day at a new school. It can be challenging to make small talk. Individuals have avoided parties and gatherings because the thought of engaging in this is scary. Small talk is an important skill – whether on the social scene or in networking. It enables one to make crucial contacts in their field. Small talk is necessary to establish a relationship which can result in a sale or a regular client. Small talk starts out on the surface. You are both fishing around initially to discover a common link – an interest or activity. It might be the stage of life you are currently in – getting a divorce, or being parents to a toddler, etc. When the common link is found, then a portal opens to a deeper place of communication. You took the plunge and are now having a fulfilling conversation. There are ways to make small talk less painful and more spontaneous. Attend an event. You have an instant topic of conversation – the concert, rugby match, school play or whatever it is. A co-worker who loathes small talk joined several MeetUp.com groups. The initial conversations are focused on the specific purpose of the group (hiking, books, travel). She can handle talking about the subject and picking up tips from the other members. At a party, a good ice breaker is to ask how a person knows the hosts. You may find out that you both have things in common. Other sure topics to get things started, is to…

Creative Ways To Date During Corona Virus

It is more challenging to date during the Corona Virus. Venues you usually pop into, may be closed during this global shutdown. Streets are deserted. Stores are shuttered. It feels like one is a character in a sci-fi film or waiting for the zombie apocalypse to begin. This time period is not the ideal circumstance to start a new dating relationship. The same rules apply as they did before the virus. Particularly for women, if you do not know someone well, then do not invite them to your place. Be safe. If you break off the relationship, better for them not to know where you live. Also, you do not want to get into a tricky situation where your date thinks you are on the menu. There are plenty of cafes and coffee shops which have lattes and luscious pastries for take away. There is often a bench nearby, where you both can sit down and get to know each other while enjoying your treats. One grocery store which sells lattes, has concrete benches in front. I meet up with a different friend from time to time. We are not in a crowd and are keeping the recommended social distance in this pandemic. This is where I planned to have my first date with a new guy. Various restaurants are serving their tantalizing food in to go containers. Pick up your favourite food and enjoy it al fresco with the warmer weather. London, for example, has many parks where one can grab a bench and eat your lunch. Have an in-depth conversation over food you just purchased at the deli. When you have gotten to know someone, then have them over to catch up on films you missed at the cinema or a marathon session watching a boxed set of…

Tips On Dating For Introverts

Going on dates can be intimidating for the introvert. It is easier to stay at home and watch romantic films than go meet potential dating partners.  Fear can stop people. Fear of getting tongue tied or sounding stupid can keep individuals from venturing out of their flat. There are ways to have dates and be in one’s comfort zone. Think about going out in a group. You can laugh and have fun without the pressure of carrying on a conversation solo.  Members of the group all contribute comments. There is less of a feeling of being judged, when in a group setting, as opposed to only being the two of you. If you hit it off with someone, a private conversation is still an option. If a person seems interested in you, it is less nerve-wracking to issue an invitation to a group activity. Say, “A bunch of us are going to the Greek Festival on Saturday. The food and music will be great – want to join us?” Go where there is a community table. I do this in several coffee shops and have talked to interesting people. One coffee shop is open late with led lighting which changes colour. It has DJ training classes which ensures edgy music and a lively vibe.  I write in this place and encounter creative types like me. Spend time with outgoing friends. They will talk to others and draw people to your group. You can meet the individuals who come over for a chat. A potential date may be on the shy side too, and find talking to you in your group a bit less of a chance for rejection.  Various podcasts give tips on how to meet people when by yourself or in a group. Practice making connections.  Talk to people…

Online Marketing Strategies for Legal Professionals

Online marketing has risen in prominence over the past 15 years and is now one of the most important marketing channels for any business, but with so many options; from search engines and email marketing to video and social media, it can be difficult to know where to start.   Did you know that 96% of people seeking legal advice use a search engine to find legal information? This statistic highlights the importance of being found online, making online marketing an essential part of any law firms marketing strategy.   Before you begin to plan and execute your online marketing strategy it is important to understand some of the core principals of marketing as these principles can be applied to whatever marketing strategy you choose.   Core Marketing Principals  Thought Leadership  Thought leadership involves ensuring that any content you publish, whether that is a blog, social media post or email newsletter, revolves around establishing yourself as an industry expert and an authority in your professional field, which is of the highest importance given the competitiveness of the legal sector.  An Integrated Approach  This is key for any type of business, but is especially important when marketing a law firm. An integrated approach means ensuring that your company ideology and tone of voice is consistent across all your marketing activities. This may seem obvious but can often be difficult to maintain, especially across both online and offline marketing channels. If your message is consistent across everything you do, it’s much easier for the customer to identify with your brand.   Be Intelligent and Strategic  All marketing activities should have a clear focus and as a law firm you should understand your customers and competitive landscape before undertaking any online marketing. It is also beneficial to set specific goals for your marketing efforts to ensure you…

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